does it make any sense?

I was hoping for different point of views on this matter that i am going to share with you, so that maybe it will help me clarify some things.

First of all, this topic is about a husband and wife that have only been married for about 2 years. They pretty much are total opposites in absolutely everything. As you would imagine this is not good at all. due to this unfortunate matter there marriage is very shakey as you might expect. I mean imagine @ couples not even bearing a conversation more than 2 min with out contradictong what the other one said, or how one may have not liked the other ones tone of voice. I mean honestly its rediculous. Well lets keep in mind that the guy is on his third marriage and there seems to be a pattern with him not being able to be satisfied in any relationship thus far. This marriage which he is in now was based on the fact that he was looking for someone to call a companion and basically to care for him. As he knows it; time is of the essence, and he was not getting any younger. So there for he got married to her willing to care for him for the obvious reasons, and of also which she was a divorce and had 3 children. Well seemed like they were fine with it till they lived under the same roof and from that point on all you heard was he said, she said bullcrap.

Just recently out of the blue, the both decide to have a baby...what!!! or better yet why ???? i mean you guys cant even stand eachother, yet alone to become a family. I dont know but personally i dont think you should bring a child into the world if things are pretty much shakey from the start, at least not just yet. I geuss things could get better later on right? I really dont know either, and i geuss that makes it all the more reason to wait right?

Well turns out, the guy or maybe even both actually come to think of it now, anyways, they are having problems concieving. So they took other measurements to overcome the obstacles in the way, and they are going the artificial insemination route which for one reason or others will fix the problem. OH! and let me not forget to mention it is very costly too! So the same question arises here too!..Why put so much effort to have the baby if your relationship is not stable? Better yet why not invest all that effort into the relationship instead first then maybe youll have a better outcome.

Well that is the situation on hand,they are both great people comming from personal experiance,however thet are not as great for one another obviously!

so the questions for you guys is should these 2 have the baby?

second question, would them having the baby improve the marriage at all?

offcourse, please feel free to comment freely on the matter aswell....thank you!